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PinayVoices's avatar

Did we ever think we were done? Yes, after the fourth child. We had 2 boys and 2 girls and were content. Youngest was 6 at the time. Our kids BEGGED us to have another one. We were torn, so we had our pastor over and sought advice from him. He said, "What's stopping you?" and we couldn't give a well thought out answer. We had no good reasons for not trying for another child, so we did. He's now 17. Absolutely no regrets.

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Many women are up against the biological deadline of fertility loss at age 40. Yes women do have babies later but often not. We have not found ways to work around this by policies which support women having babies during their 20's and 30's when they are pursuing higher education and careers. Also $2000 is a drop in the bucket of the costs of pregnancy and raising a child. A good place to start would be universal healthcare and subsidized childcare. We should actually be collecting more in taxes not less but tax the right people.

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