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Barbara James's avatar

I like Sara Hendren's observations. It's interesing what differences a perspective can make.

What she describes as high density, the mid-level type of dense housing with close by public transportation and public businesses, can be challenging in urban areas where developers don't want mid-level dense housing. They want the density to be even higher.

I don't like this move towards high density, but it's happening all over, and it's not conducive to the vision she has of familial type supports in mid-level housing. Where I live (a non-suburb), the developers are tearing down the single, two, and three-family housing in support of apartment buildings with numerous units.

High density of that type isn't always safe, from any perspective. There are plenty of stories about women as well as men being attacked and in hallways, elevators, and laundry rooms.

Now if we had more mid density housing of two to four units in low density suburbs or in high density cities, with wheelchair accessibility and elevators, that would be ideal.

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jd wolfe's avatar

as i age (73 now), although i'm healthy and active, i find more things are challenging. my hand strength is one of the main challenges. that tv commercial about opening pickle jars makes me laugh but it's SO true. i've been stopped in the middle of a recipe simply because i was unable to open a container. so, simple home repairs become not so simple. i loathe elevators and take the stairs unless it's more than 5 flights up - as did my mother until she was well into her 90's. - so living in a high rise is pretty much out of the question. things like driving at night are problems for many older people, not just women. but since women tend to live longer than men, if we are to be self sufficient, we must get around on our own, so driving ourselves is important so long as we can do it confidently and safely. cataract surgery really helps with that, btw. i've always been short, and i'm shrinking, as most of us do, so now i have small step stools all over my home. but, they become less safe for us the older we become. but, changing light bulbs requires them. my ceilings are 12 feet high, so i need to climb higher. anything involving home maintenance is more challenging the older one becomes. but, mowing an acre was a challenge when i had 3 babies too. things were just physically easier in those days....

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