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Barbara James's avatar

We forget another aspect of the weaponization aspect. Women who don't have children (yet or at all) live this reality of being seen as anti-child, when they are asked why they don't have children. Yes, it's the default, and most women do, but the world it creates for those women who don't have any is heartbreaking. They might be dealing with broken relationships or fertility problems, but the presumption is that they never were willing to make the sacrifice. So I have vowed never to be the type of person to ask a new acquaintance. It will come out in some form eventally, there's no need to push the issue.

Also, there are plenty of people without children who "die to self" by being present in their extended families and communities, in donating their time and money to people in need.

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Sophia's avatar

Heather Lanier's Raising A Rare Girl. The whole thing, really.

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