Other Feminisms will take a break next week, because my family has a short term logistical emergency (but the good kind, I promise). In the meantime, I wanted to share something on buildings and beauty. Meanwhile, I had the pleasure of reviewing American Shtetl, a legal and cultural history of the Jewish enclave of Kiryas Joel, for First Things.

I appreciated reading a recent conversation between David Schaengold and Matthew Schmitz on Radiopaper (a project for public, collaborative conversations run by Schaengold). They start out by talking about film noir, and then make their way over to architecture, and a famous 1982 debate between Christopher Alexander and Peter Eisenman.
Here’s what Schaengold says:
For Alexander, the best thing a building can be is "absolutely comfortable." Whenever I read the debate transcript, I feel like Alexander almost has me convinced—he's certainly not wrong that there is an odd prejudice against pitched roofs in architecture—until I come to that line. It's a weird thing for Alexander to say, because only shortly before, he has been talking about the experience of Chartres as so overwhelming that it's understandable to feel panicky about it. That doesn't sound like absolute comfort to me.
I wish they had talked about Chartres a little more, because it represents neither man's ideal. Eisenman has reason to reject it because it offers an emotional, sensuous experience. Alexander has reason to reject it because that experience is frequently an uncomfortable one. The word I would use to describe this sensuous discomfort is beauty (not a fully satisfying term because that word also means lots of other things in English). The effect of Chartres, at least to some percentage of those who visit it, is a total disruption of the ordinary course of one's existence in the world. The effect is like that of the statue of Apollo in Rilke's poem. In the poem, the statue speaks to those who see it, and says "you must change your life."
I appreciate this discussion, especially as we all have an appetite for beauty. But sometimes (especially e.g. in the context of the self-care industry) the beauty on offer is a very clean, tame, almost sterilized beauty. It’s the beauty of AirSpace, a term coined by Kyle Chayka to describe the flat placelessness cultivated by places like WeWork and many AirBnBs.
In contrast, the beauty of Chartres is more like what Edmund Burke characterizes as the sublime.
The passion caused by the great and sublime in nature, when those causes operate most powerfully, is astonishment; and astonishment is that state of the soul, in which all its motions are suspended, with some degree of horror. In this case the mind is so entirely filled with its object, that it cannot entertain any other, nor by consequence reason on that object which employs it. […]
Indeed, terror is in all cases whatsoever, either more openly or latently, the ruling principle of the sublime. Several languages bear a strong testimony to the affinity of these ideas. They frequently use the same word, to signify indifferently the modes of astonishment or admiration, and those of terror. θάμβος is in Greek, either fear or wonder; δετυος is terrible or respectable; αίδέω, to reverence or to fear. Vereor in Latin, is what αίδέω is in Greek. The Romans used the verb stupeo, a term which strongly marks the state of an astonished mind, to express the effect of either of simple fear or of astonishment; the word attonitus (thunder-struck) is equally expressive of the alliance of these ideas; and do not the French étonnement, and the English astonishment and amazement, point out as clearly the kindred emotions which attend fear and wonder?
You wouldn’t live inside Chartres, and I don’t know many people whose homes incorporate this kind of sublime, arresting beauty. (The exception is people who live near enormous features of natural beauty—not mountains safely in the distance, but crags that shock you with your smallness.) It leaves me curious what this discussion means for homemaking and hospitality.
Does your community include spaces that offer quiet beauty and ones that offer the terror of the sublime?
Have you had moments where you realize you need one or the other?
Have you ever seen the sublime incorporated into a home?
P.S. If you just want to read more by Christopher Alexander, I first encountered him through this wonderful piece in First Things.
I have in the past worked and lived at mine camps. The accommodation and offices and facilities were always miserable, uncomfortable, ugly, temporary structures that seemed to be designed to impress upon the workers that they did not deserve to treated like humans who have the sort of sensual and aesthetic needs that are discussed in _A Pattern Language_. These workplaces are a world away from the bland, hygienic, styled interiors of inner city offices.
But then you have the sublimity of the underground. To be a kilometre underground in the steamy heat listening to the rocks cracking, seeing the ore minerals sparkling in the light of your head lamp, is something I miss profoundly. Seeing the crystals growing in cavities, the strange fungi, the lights in the distance from machines. The deep, still silence (when there aren't machines nearby!), the scent of the air, the way time moves differently, these are all akin to the experience of a cathedral. But for me there is also a sense of enclosure and security and I yearn to curl up and sleep in there forever. It is a comfortable place, for all its sublimity.
The comfort of home is "afflicting" in its own way. When we have an opportunity to step away from ugliness and constantly flashing screens into a place where money isn't exchanged and is an expression of a person and/or family, it's...different from our normal experience, and on some level we have to grapple with that, even if we don't realize we're doing so.
Also, part of why sublime beauty is sublime is because we are small/unworthy. Maybe in the next life we will have the capacity to experience sublimity and comfort simultaneously, whereas here we can only experience them separately (which is why we need both cathedrals and throw pillows, but not in the same place).