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Martha's avatar

Oh, I love this so much: "I don't have to make the perfect anything. I don't have to make the thing nobody's ever seen. I don't have to do any of those things. I just have to try to make the thing as beautifully as I know how with these collaborators in this process, that's my only responsibility."

Feeling this deeply right now.

One way that I've been thinking about the river of history, especially re: parenting is cooking & baking. How teaching my kiddo these skills that I got from my dad that he got from his mom etc etc - it's a beautiful thing.

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Last night my daughter ( age 15) and her friend (16) trudged around the neighborhood in the snow and then landed in my dining room. We drank tea and her friend asked me what I thought about gender roles in Catholicism, considering she'd heard a weird talk by a pregnancy center about women being naturally afraid of things like bees and men protecting women from bees (WTF??). I told her that I thought that Catholicism understood the body as good, created, and here to steward a future, much of which we will not live to see. Alas, the female body is designed to create new people and the male body is, in part, designed to protect, in the sense that creating new people is implicitly vulnerable and dangerous, much more than bees. If we see ourselves as a small piece in a long story then our role as creators and stewards makes more sense than asking, perhaps, if we'd rather have a sports car or a child, or if our bodies should be harnessed for maximum short term pleasure rather than the hard work of creating and caring. The friend replied that this made sense to her and then wondered why, if Catholics are concerned so much about stewarding the future of people, we aren't nearly as concerned about stewarding a created world and the environment. We discussed the dignity of work, and I told her that we are concerned to see people use their bodies and minds and do real work, and not to replace our ingenuity and labor with machines and fossil fuels or waste time, for example, day trading. Since both girls had taken Catechesis of the Good Shepherd, I reminded them of the time lines, which show such a long history of the world, the goodness of creation, and our "blank page," indicating we are both very important as contributors to our moment, and so small in God's redeeming vision which started well before us and will end well after us. Later that night, I sent them both your blog Leah, imagining that you'd have more to offer them on gender, stewardship and the goodness of creation and creating than I might.

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