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Laurie Cherbonnier's avatar

"Bodies with Vaginas" is a term men would naturally use about us, because that is what interests them. If we are going reduce women to bodies only, "Bodies with Wombs" is at least more powerful. I have often thought that our power to bring life into the world is a trigger for womb envy and therefore misogyny. Of course they would like to neutralize, or neuter, us. But I hope we do not start using physical words only for women: we are so much more than just that.

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KT F's avatar

I can do identify with the comment or you referenced who went to electronics camp. I think I was 15 when my mom told me “most girls don’t think like you.” What she meant was that most girls didn’t love to program computers the way I did and still do. It not only stung, but felt wrong. I later learned why. In college a professor introduced me to a PhD thesis by a former student of his. The thesis examined not only the different ways women were drawn to computing, but also the different strengths women brought to computing. That speaks to the end of what you said, that there should be a feminism that values women as women. That doesn’t have to look the same across all women-shouldn’t. Computing, hockey, electrical engineering, and military history can be feminine. So can pink and sparkles. There are many ways to be feminine. But it is still a thing.

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