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Haley Baumeister's avatar

What I find interesting and of note about the Nordics is how small the families are. If there are massive benefits, it seems the implication is that it's a blip on the woman's lifespan - so only a few short years of investment. Whereas that's not really the reality of the choices of childbearing/prioritizing home for many others.

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These discussions make me so very happy to live in Canada, particularly Quebec. It’s a wholistic system that just works - no pitting different types of families against each other; no patchwork of subsidies requiring endless paperwork. I sincerely believe it works only because ALL of these elements are in place:

1. 12 months of leave (for either parent) paid (at 55-75%) by a government program that every worker pays into.

2. Option of an additional 12 months unpaid leave, during which you can work part time or not at all, but the employer has to hold your position.

3. A robust network of subsidized daycares that cost ~ $10/day. For families who can’t find one or choose otherwise, they can receive a subsidy to help pay for private daycare, a babysitter/nanny, a family member etc.

(The daycare subsidy can also be used for after-school care and summer camp!)

Honestly, it makes so much sense to pay parents to care for their kids for the first months of life. We’re doing essential work for the country, why shouldn’t we be paid? And no one I know thinks group care at this age is the ideal arrangement (by 1-2 years old, it’s much different). But it shouldn’t mean either parent needs to make the lifelong decision of abandoning their career altogether.

Tl;dr: Maternity/Parental leave is the obvious answer that the US seems bent on ignoring. The rest of the world is thoroughly puzzled.

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