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Katie's avatar

I appreciate the blend of lived experience and intellectual inquiry that you promote here. Despite a swanky liberal arts education, I never encountered "academic" or various mainstream feminisms in any sort of formal or structured or even peer-promoted way. Rather, I'd say I jumped from inhabiting a fairly complacent, don't-rock-the-boat, conservative-ish upbringing that didn't ask questions or push me much to wrestle with them for myself; into an adult milieu that is decidedly progressive but often ALSO doesn't ask questions, because the right progressive answers are already assumed to be a given. I have often feel underprepared to participate in the discourse around me, but my heart and mind insist that things are more complex than my neighbors and peer group and social media circles seem to allow for. It's as if there's a haze of fogginess hanging over feminism, when the terms and definitions and histories and other -isms either elude me or seem to contradict themselves from conversation to conversation. So, I find in following your articles and links and comment section, that I have to read carefully, think hard, stretch my intellectual and ethical muscles, and sit with things for a week or more when I'm reading along regularly. I think that kind of sustained engagement, paired with a tone of respect and thoughtful exchange, and frankly the anonymity of the web, really helps to exercise those muscles, to dispel some of the fogginess. This page is a workout. I'm grateful for your umbrella of "other" that offers me a chance to test ideas in a way that's robust but not automatically pre-determined. I've felt over the years that I'm the most liberal person in a conservative setting, and the most conservative in my liberal sets-- yet here you typically invite readers past the either/or into a both/and or other/more or even a not-yet-but-what-if? Sometimes I end up reconsidering my position, sometimes I clarify it, sometimes I get to examine my reasons for a gut-reaction disagreement, sometimes I recognize new questions to pursue. This page offers scaffolding, context, and prompting that I hadn't necessarily known how to frame on my own.

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Magdalen's avatar

I would describe it first and foremost as an all-too-rare place where I can have a great conversation about various women's issues with people who disagree strongly with me.

I also feel like it's a place where the prompts that you share have really helped me reflect and articulate my perspectives on different issues, and having a prompt to respond to each week has helped me keep these topics in the forefront of my mind throughout this year. I really think that responding to your prompts each week has helped strengthen my convictions and in some cases forced me to reconcile contradictions I've tried to hold in my head.

As a side note, I've started playing with the name "Embodied Feminism." A current that runs through a lot of our conversations is that feminism needs to embrace the reality of women's bodies, in all their weaknesses and all the ways they must be treated differently from men's bodies. It's also a rebuke of the idea of the mind-body duality that can encourage us to hate our bodies or wish to change them because they don't conform to what our minds wish they were like.

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