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Bethany's avatar

I need more of this discussion! (I will of course read the rest of the transcript). If I may, I am also smart, and I married someone smarter than me, and we have four kids who are, unsurprisingly, very smart.

I have said for years, and I tell my kids this too, that being smart is like being tall. It's not something you have control over, it's not something you have accomplished. It's something God gave you to use to serve others. Despite this standard, I enjoy being smart, I enjoy seeing my kids excel, and in the back of my mind, I know I'm not quite living consistently with my stated values here. It's hard! The cult of smart (love this phrase, the book is going on my list) is pervasive, sneaky, and warps things in ways I can't quite perceive. My oldest though, is not competitive or ambitious at all, she just enjoys what she enjoys, and that includes reading, spelling, math, and piano, but also pretending to be a monster with her siblings and playing softball and taekwondo. She regularly shows me that you can enjoy things without caring if you're better or worse than someone else.

For me, there is also a strong undercurrent of self doubt. I was finally diagnosed with ADHD a couple of years ago, after spending all of my adulthood struggling to have something to show for this gift of intelligence. It's hard for me to finish things, to read deeply or analyze multiple sources (caring for small children makes this even harder). In college I switched from journalism because learning to write simple news reports was tedious and hard work. I majored in economics instead, because the topic was interesting to me, I could retain it and do well on tests with minimal effort. I often feel self conscious in circles with other smart people, because I haven't read most of the things they've read, and so I can't back up my claims as well as I'd like to. Now that I have medication to help, I'm slowly unlearning a lot of bad habits, and maybe one day I'll live up to my own standards. Or maybe I'll escape the cult of smart and stop worrying about it.

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While of course a person's dignity has nothing to do with their specific traits, I strongly oppose the equivalency of 'smarts' to other characteristics like height. I do not think they are similar *in kind*. Our whole current system is built up on a particular notion that 'smart' people are very good test takers, for instance. And test taking is a particular skill! But it is not equivalent to 'smart'.

This critique of the Cult of Smart is very much worth reading in full (warning: it's long): https://www.currentaffairs.org/2020/09/we-dont-know-our-potential

There's an argument made in the critique about a particular person who seems to not grasp what an atom is. deBoer would have her teachers write her off as just not very smart, probably not suited to school, etc., BUT maybe she wants to understand the concept deeper, maybe she approaches it *differently* - creating a system where she can thrive should be the goal, not creating a system where a narrow idea of 'smart' means we write off her potential for making intellectual contributions (if she wants to! I'm not saying making scientific breakthroughs makes her 'better' than, say, a welder).

There used to be an emphasis in labor unions and leftist political organizations on popular education - to dig into the history of our movements, to read Marx, to read poetry, to write songs. There was an expectation that every person should have the freedom to make art and explore ideas. That has been lost as people have bought into ideas of 'meritocracy' and a hierarchy of 'smarts' where an elite within organizations think they should dictate strategy to 'the masses'. But the leftist answer isn't to double down on a weird and toxic argument that 'smart' looks and acts a particular way.

I intend to read deBoers' new book when my hold comes in from the library, I'm sure it will be full of ideas I agree with wholeheartedly (in addition to ones I'll enjoy mulling on and disagreeing with). But there are a host of reasons deBoer is very popular among certain factions of the conservative movement that dance with ideas of racial and ethnic superiority. And I wish he would really contemplate why that's the case.

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