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Apr 7Edited

I constantly struggle with the lack of detail on prescription medication instructions, because many drugs kind of require you to schedule your life around your meds for them to work correctly. If I had more information on the bottle about *why* I need to wait an hour after taking something to eat, instead of just “do this,” I would feel a lot less like I am being treated as a robot that can easily handle weird adjustments to meal & sleep schedules. Sometimes a drug interaction could have serious consequences, but in other cases fudging the instructions might just mean marginally less drug absorption. If it’s the latter, and would lessen the disruptions to daily living, that should be something patients should know.

I constantly gripe about how medical practices make a big deal about being on time (or billing you anyway if you aren’t), but as patients we have little recourse for doctors being late or canceling appointments at the last minute, which is especially infuriating when some of these have been on the calendar for months and require childcare arrangements. While medicine can be unpredictable, just showing up on time is often 90% of me having a positive experience at the doctor.

Another big one is more insurance-related. Despite being the parent who handles the majority of our children’s medical care, insurance tends to build their business and services around the subscribers, so although I have a right to our children’s data as a parent, I frequently lose access to online insurance records as a dependent spouse, simply because of the way they build & update their website. I imagine we are not the only family who has this problem.

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> Where have you encountered a professional (at work or in medicine) who kept rejecting the actual people in front of them in favor of an imagined ideal?

Establishing nursing with my firstborn was, to put it mildly, not straightforward. One of the worst moments was having a lactation helper write in the chart that I wasn't compliant with their recommendation to pump for X minutes after every feeding. They didn't seem to understand that we were attempting to nurse so often and for so long that I couldn't even tell what counted as "a feeding", let alone find X spare minutes in between to pump and still be able to eat and go to the bathroom and such. This is maybe just my experience talking, but I think the lactation and motherbaby-care world is especially prone to this problem, especially since 2x the number of patients = more than 2x the complexity.

> Where have you redesigned a system or replanned an event in order to accommodate people as they actually are?

I am trying to shift my parenting problem-solving to this mindset. There's a certain genre of unhelpful parenting advice that I like to call "Have you tried simply not having that problem?", which involves wishing that circumstances/abilities/needs were magically different, rather than taking an honest look at the people and situation.

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