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Barbara James's avatar

I haven't been "legibly" in the world of employment out of the home since 2015.

Being "under the radar" has been a blessing, giving me a freedom that's been incalculable.

Although I had caregiving responsibilities for a good number of those years, they have lessened since then, and it's been wonderful.

As far as I'm concerned, I'm answerable only to God, myself and my family, and nothing is more important than these.

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Quakeress's avatar

I spent three years as a stay at home mom with my second child. With my older child, I didn't have that luxury. I remained "legible" to the state as somebody who went to well-child doctor's appointments, but on the whole I was much less controllable than others. Being at home enabled me to invest time in my family (my children, my parents, my in-laws) and my community (I had a mommy-and-me group, I got to know moms and other people from my neighbourhood), my own network of friends - so being more illegible to the state made me more legible to my community and I wove a web of quite durable social connections, so to speak.

Being legible to the state is necessary to some extent and has some justification - but in this age of better surveillance systems (-> see Chines social credit scores) and state overreach being legible to the state means being subjected to its current whims. Which scares me badly.

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