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Sophia's avatar

Neither of my jobs allows for remote work just by the nature of the thing (cleaning floors in the wake of several busy bakers is not something you can do over Zoom, for example), but two things that have made this year much easier for me have been because of COVID.

At one of my jobs, part-time workers (which is almost all of us) get paid sick days if we have Covid-like symptoms. This means if we get sick, even if it's just the less deadly flu, we can stay home without worrying about our paychecks. Which means fewer sick people have been stuffing themselves with medicine and dragging themselves into work (and sharing germs with the rest of us), and so we've actually seen less sickness overall. Also, people have actually been washing their hands, people give each other personal space, we're not handling items from members of the public. . . and so, I've gone without catching an infectious disease (and I say this without exaggeration) longer than ever before in my life. If people could remember the benefits of just these two relatively simple things when the threat of death is no longer attached, the future could be noticeably better.

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The flexibility of working from home has meant that I've been taking care of myself much better than I was before. Now that I'm just walking into the living room instead of riding the train to work, I'm getting more sleep and have more time in the morning to spend in prayer. I can eat dinner when I'm hungry instead of commuting home with a growling stomach, and even when they're quick, my dinners are healthier and more filling. I'm exercising more often because I don't have to fit a trip to the gym around my work schedule. I hope post-COVID there are companies willing to accommodate this kind of work-life balance--sometimes it seems like "work-life balance" at many companies just means "we won't force you to work after 6 pm and also there are some good restaurants in the area you could go to at lunch".

I've also been a better worker while working from home, without spending extra time working. I write marketing copy, which means I spent most of my day staring at various Google docs. But while working from home, if I get stuck on an assignment, I can go unload the dishwasher or take a walk to get my brain moving again. I have the silence and space that creates better writing, which is so difficult to replicate in an office. I loved my office and miss it, but it's undeniable that offices are bad spaces to nurture good writing. My dream office would make space for people doing creative work to get up from the computer and do something else for a while, instead of monitoring whether or not we're sitting at our desks. (And writers would get big signs we could put up on our desks that said "IF IT'S NOT ON FIRE, ASK ME LATER".)

Lastly, the pandemic has exposed to me how much of my life in public was driven by FOMO, jealousy, and other people's expectations. I work(ed) downtown in a major city, so every workday was like being bombarded by tempting possibilities: I should get a new leather bag, I should buy a fancy sandwich in the food hall, I should take an international vacation like my coworkers, I should upgrade my phone... The things I actually wanted and needed were being buried under my attempts to resist these tugs at my desire, I was grumpy and restless, and I questioned a lot of my choices. Now it's all just...gone. No one is doing anything to be jealous of, and spending time with myself has made my actual desires and longings easier to identify. It turns out when I'm not exposed to this flurry of alluring objects, they lose their allure and my real hopes and dreams are more solid and wholesome, like "write something great" and "be a mom". I hope that when I'm back out in the world, I can hold onto this sense of my true self and not get sucked in again by everyone else's choices.

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