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Fr. Gregory Boyle’s Tattoos on the Heart is about his life working with gang members in Los Angeles. He founded Homeboy Ministries to help people leave gang life. It’s an inspiring book. One chapter, I think just called Successes, is about how Boyle responds when a granting authority wants stats on how many clients he had helped, what his success fraction is, etc. He talks about how uncomfortable he is framing his work in this way. Some “successes” don’t hold--the person goes back to his old life, or is convicted for a crime and goes to prison, or is found and killed by former associates or old rivals. So, are those failures? Can a person be so flawed as to be a failure? The chapter explores those questions thoughtfully and with compassion.

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The children’s anthology Frog and Toad include some great stories that end without victory. We love reading these to our toddler. In my favorite story, Toad says he looks silly in his bathing suit and doesn’t want anyone to see him. In the end, many animals see him in his bathing suit, laugh at him, and agree that he looks funny. Toad responds, “Of course I do!” That is the ending. It’s amazing.

Looking forward to the book club!

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